I don't understand I don't understand and Im seriously DON'T UNDERSTAND!! What's wrong with kissing? what's wrong?? People kiss because they are attracted to each other! So what??
Okay, maybe for people point of view, as a Muslim, they will say that kissing and making out are sins against purity. They believe that kissing and making out is only reserved for the married. Okay fine, I do know that and truly understand the boundaries. But for my point of view, at least it does not lead in sex before marriage!
Ridiculous nonsensical dogma. If you don't mate with the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with you are doing yourself a huge disservice. Okay, now prove that Im wrong here. Where does it say in Al-Quran that kissing is a sin? It basically just says don't do anything that would cause you to sin. So, you have to decide for yourself whether or not you can handle kissing or if you think it would lead to sex.
Its actually what you choose to do with those things will either lead you down to Allah's path of life or the world's path of death. The fact is, anyone can kiss. It takes a strong Muslim rooted in a mindset of purity to WANT to save themselves for marriage. Kissing prior to marriage isn't listed in the Al-Quran as a sin, but it could lead to sin. Okay then correct me with this!
Or maybe in Al-Quran they would say this "Bahawa sesiapa sahaja yang melihat seorang wanita bernafsu, sudah berzina dengan dia di dalam hatinya.", Oleh itu jika dia menyamakan pandangannya berahi dengan zina, bagaimana serius yang kamu fikir dia akan melihat mencium sebelum berkahwin" It means that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.", therefore if he equates a lustful gaze with adultery, how serious do you think he would view kissing before marriage??
Okay but then again it is more an issue of personal purity. We are to stay pure until marrige, and some people are willing to bend different rules and go on thier own terms of purity. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it. Okay, maybe I am wrong as I do know as a Muslim, I know and I know that kissing in this way outside of the bonds of marriage neither proves nor enhances true love!!!
Okay so its my fault, my bad, I did sins. Many. Forgive Me. I have my flaws. But this is all about love. I may be wrong in this part but those feelings I can't hide. Im sorry. If its not because of love, I wouldn't be me.
P.S : Im not like my parents, who don't actually hold hand for years before they got married. But this is me. I, personally like when a guy takes my hand when we are walking. Because of one thing. Because I love him. I love you. That's the only answer of why I kissed you! And I don't regret it!
![]() |
| Because I love Sayanggg... |


No comments:
Post a Comment